Do you have leftover baggage from previous relationships? Are you blaming the new person for what the old one did? If you think you’re ready for a new relationship, you may have to think again.

Many times, we think we’re ready to move on, when in fact we still need inner healing and soul searching before we find ourselves in the lives of another. If you don’t take the time for that very important decision, you may find that your new relationship closely resembles that last one. With no help or reevaluating your inner self, there is no real way to NOT pack old baggage into the new relationship. Instead, we continue to medicate the real problems, while dumping old situations onto a new person…which is so unfair to him or her. This will continue from relationship to relationship until you make a conscious choice to do away with old baggage. “Traveling Bag That Won’t Fit” is an ultimate conclusion that will only hurt and confuse the new loves that come into your life that may actually be great people.

These are a few signs that show YOU may have extra bags YOU don’t need…

~ People are all liars.
~ What did I do to these people to deserve this?
~ Counseling is for crazy people.
~ It was not my fault…it was them not me.
~ I am always done wrong.
~ There are no nice people out there.
~ No one really cares about me.
~ Why does everyone do me so wrong?
~ I can’t trust anyone.

If you have agreed with any of the example statements above, suffer no more, and further more, don’t allow yourself and past hurts cause another to suffer from YOUR pain. Old baggage is not good for anyone, but most importantly it’s no good for YOU. Get help, professional help does not make you crazy, nor is professional help just for crazy people. Let it go and move into a new relationship free, with the only things moving in is YOU! Check the bags in the trash.

~ SLick