Every week to 2 weeks, most women get their hair did as a routine. As for me, I usually go bi-weekly to comply with pay days. Hey, with the economy the way it is even getting your hair done has to stay on budget.
Anyway, to make a long story short, as Pauletta (my stylist) started my hair, she put the girl she had rinsed under the dryer.
Pauletta asks,
“Girl, how U been this week”? I reply,
“Fine chica, just making it one day at a time”.
She goes, “that’s good, we all doin that these days”.
I asked her how was her cousin Jackie. She replied,
“You mean Jackie, the heffa that left Omar for sorry azz Danieal”?
I go, “Um yes, that’ll be the one minus the heffa…LOL, You ain’t gone get me to call that heffa a heffa! Hell, you know Jackie, she’ll come in here and have hair flyin all in this lil shop!”.
After laughing, Pauletta goes on to answer…
“Listen girl, Jackie left the man she was with for 2 years for a cat that she JUST met and only hung out with for 1 month. Omar does have a kid and a baby momma, but he’s a good guy that repected the ground she walked on. Daniel on the other hand, is a player and pretty boy that she can never seem to find on the weekends. I asked the girl why she left Omar like that and all she replied to me was…”don’t ask why after why”. Now Trina, is that foolish or what?
I said, “Girl imma have to hang out with homegirl to knock some sense in her head”.
Pauletta says, hmm you better do that quick cause all that girl’s sense is almost gone…and remember you ain’t heard none of this frome me”.
I say, heard what”? LOL! “Girl gone and tame these naps”. END*
Okay now I ask all of you that are passing through to read this blog, why do women and men give up good people for the bad ones?
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I haven’t understood that myself. I had men leave me because they said I was too good for them. They after they see the hoodrat wasn’t what they thought she was, wanted to come back.. I never gave them the chance. I read a book about commitment phobic people. I think that is the case. They see too much of a good thing and had to find a way to escape. The girl you where talking about might feel she isn’t worthy of the good guy..
I don’t have the answer, but I suspect that sometimes, it’s the excitement factor. What I mean is that we don’t always want what’s best for us. Example: We know we should eat plenty of vegatables and fruits, but we seem to always opt for the ice cream sundee instead. Meaning the guy that is good for us, the one we can always count on and predict his behavior, isn’t as exciting as the bad boy, the one that we ‘t find when we need him and we never know what he’ll do next , is the one we choose, only to regret it later.