It still amazes me that people can find strong connections
right on their comps, yet can’t find a single soul in day to day face to face situations!!!
ONLINE LOVE JONES
Has an online love affair knocked on the other side of you monitor?
Was it long distance?
How long did it last?
was it your soulmate?
KARMA IS REAL TALK
(I write this in response to a conflict a loved one has faced today)
“You can fool all the people some of the time, and some of the people all the time, but you cannot fool all the people all the time.”
~ Abraham Lincoln (1809 - 1865)
Guess we can never say that old people can’t teach us a GOOD lesson huh? From then to now, Abraham Lincoln’s words punches true even in today’s society.
Have you ever come across a person that just wasn’t right and you knew it from your gut? I mean, you clearly seen the wrong in them, but had no real proof other than that gut feeling. Keep in mind, you’d try to overthrow your feelings by second guessing yourself, fooling yourself into thinking maybe its just YOU, only coming to an end result that it is NOT. Meanwhile, people all around you almost worships that person. So, of course you personally keep your mouth shut of your thoughts, because it’s human nature to think one must be jealous if there are no obvious reasons why you’d have an unpositive issue with that person. However, jealousy is NOT no where close to what’s in your heart.
When and if this happens to you, don’t sweat it! Just stay true to your gut feelings and understand that KARMA never excape the chance to take its turn. Some say karma is a an old wives tale, but rather you believe it or not, it still takes its turn. Also, understand that no matter how long it takes, what’s done in the dark always comes to the light. You on the other hand, just keep being YOU! Stay honest and true and never allow a person with cruel intentions change the beauty that is within YOU!
Just a though for those that may need to hear these words,
~ SLick
It’s been said, that within the first few seconds of meeting someone, you’d know whether or not you’d want to pursue something with that person! Evidence proves that most people make up their minds within the first three seconds of meeting someone.
Falling in Love within the First Three Minutes in some cases does NOT mean falling in love for a life long relationship TOGETHER forever so to speak. Sometimes we actually fall in love with people for personality and or ability. All the while knowing full well that a permanent relationship with that person would never really work on a day to day basis.
This is where a LOVE JONES comes in. You want this person to always be in your life, but never on the concrete aspect.
Have you experienced this? Do tell!!!!
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Okay if you all remember the last episode of the Thomas and Jackie situation, you’ll really be interested in this
RECAP
Soon after Thomas learned that Jackie had saved money behind his back and also purchased a building too, he was beyond furious. Thomas felt betrayed as well as lied to. He felt like there was a great since of communication within the relationship, but found out he was wrong in a the most hurtful way.
Thomas decided to leave the house to think things through. He wanted to re-examine how all this escaped him noticing what his wife had done, while she was actually doing it.
Meanwhile, back at the house Jackie felt bad as to how she went about all this, but she also knew there was no way in hell Thomas would have went along with her plans to open business for herself.
Jackie knew how a fixed Thomas was on having a mother IN the home for his kids. Ya see, Thomas was a foster child and he vowed never to allow his own children to be left without all they needed. Even if that meant him working his fingers to the bone so the wife and kids wanted for NOTHING.
One thing Thomas doesn’t understand is that a marriage is a 2 way street. There are no one way street available in a marriage. Thomas really needed to understand that Jackie changed her mind along the way and wanted a new path for HER future. He needed to understand that you really shouldn’t base current actions by the things you’ve faced as a child.
On the other hand, Jackie was wrong too, she should have come to her hubby and honestly told him her new ideas and dreams. By her hiding money and making secret large purchases, it makes her seem untrustworthy and sneaky. Jackie needs to understand that even though what she did was for the betterment of her own future, the way she went about it was damaging to the relationship.
While in relationships it’s always a really good idea to share thoughts and new ideas we may personally have festering within us. Hiding them only leads to later frustration IN the relationship.
Next time, we’ll see what Thomas has to say when he gets home.
As we journey on in this life we sometime become so busy and boggled down that we simple forget to show love to the precious people around us. Today we’re reminding you to settle for love.
7 things to invite LOVERLINESS in all you relationships.
1. Pay attention to the small things in the relationship and remember each day is not promised so live each day as if it were your last. Treasure time spent together.
2. Look at life with a new point of view and amazement at the simple thing. Understand that everything around you is a miracle.
3. Be cheerful and refuse to be negative. Be optimistic and appreciative.
4. Laugh. There are so many things I’m sure that right around you that you can laugh at…not at other people, but get around people that make you laugh. Laughter melts away stress and brings more memories to precious life moments.
5. Smile. Smiling encourages people to talk to you, opens new doors and possibilities for cherished moments with new people.
6. Life is precious so allow people to see through you, the happiness life could be.
7. Love the people who are close to you and even some who aren’t.
This has been a Midweek Expression coercing you to live with no regrets Wednesday!
Let love shine through folks ~ Thanks for stopping in & have a great day.
